Our world is upside down

[heartbreaking]

We are really struggling today..We've kinda thought they want the date off his medical records to pin point a time line so he can be charged. I don't feel like it will ever end

[YearsOfHell]

The cps have given the office investigating two weeks then her findings have to be sent off.
Either they are trying to piece together a time line or there's something else.

However the dates have changed.

Well done for getting through it today!
Keep positive, he still not been arrested.
One step closer to an end to this awful nightmare.
Keep strong.
Big hugs

[heartbreaking]

The cps have given the office investigating two weeks then her findings have to be sent off.
Either they are trying to piece together a time line or there's something else.

However the dates have changed.

[AmandaF]

And so it drags on for you- sorry to hear that.

Seems like a strange interview to me

[heartbreaking]

The interview was only 25 mins max. I don't know what to make of that. My partner asked about him leaving school and his jobs.
They requested permission to look at his hospital notes.

Still no charge no arrest.

[Absolute_Innocent]

Thinking of you both... Sending positive thoughts and virtual hugs

[heartbreaking]

Thank you I hope and pray he can go in and counter act everything they say with a date or a time.
Years of hell has been a star. We swapped numeracy and is a great support x

[AmandaF]

Just to say will be thinking about you tomorrow. It's time you were able to get on with your lives.Let us know how you get on

Hugs

[Rights Fighter]

YoH you really are fab at supporting people despite going through your own "years of hell". Well done you!

[YearsOfHell]

Will be with you in spirit!

We have an idea why they want the records.his time line seems rather tight to me so I dunno. It just drags all emotions back up.

Just to say we are with you in spirit tomorrow.
Keep calm and remember to not give too much away at this stage.
Make sure you have the solicitor with him as he doesn't have to answer anything that he has already answered in previous interview.
Whatever happens stay positive.
Each step in this nightmare is a step closer to resolution!
Best wishes to you both
YoH

[heartbreaking]

We have an idea why they want the records.his time line seems rather tight to me so I dunno. It just drags all emotions back up.

[TBG1]

He has been requested to attend another interview on Monday morning to confirm dates and ask for permission to have his medical records

That must be bitterly disappointing for you heartbreaking, but I hope you can stay strong.

Have they given you/your OH any clue as to why they might require his medical records? I can't imagine that they would contain any pertinent information whatsoever.

And as far as "confirming dates" are concerned, I assume that this means the dates the alleged incidents supposedly took place?

If so, and I invite RF or CH to correct me, I suggest he simply listens to the dates that the FA has specified and say nothing in response, because I have seen many threads on here that say that when they were told the dates in their interviews, they were relieved as they were able to say that there was no way that anything could have happened on those dates because...(insert a reason).

Having done that, the police then go back to the FA and tell them and they say 'Oh yes, I must've mixed the dates up....it was actually (insert a date)'. And so this line of defence is effectively forfeit.

In short, if the dates can be disputed, don't dispute them in the interview.

Sending you strength. TBG1.

[heartbreaking]

He has been requested to attend another interview on Monday morning to confirm dates and ask for permission to have his medical records

[AmandaF]

I echo everything you have said Megane- those of us on the wrong side of trial must never give up..

people used to say that the truth will out and I lost all faith in that, But it does even if it seems to take forever, We find strength we never knew we had even when everything seems to be against us.

Things have to change, for us and for those who find themselves on this road in the future

[Megane2015]

Our world is upside down

I haven't posted for a while just been up and down and a hectic life with having to be mum and dad. I went to see my husband with the boys yesterday another 400 mile round trip. It is so hard to leave him there. I feel for everyone that is in this situation it is so unjust. My husband has been away for almost 5 months now and it's so hard to be apart. I'm juggling full time work paying the bills dealing with the kids looking after elderly relatives and making sure the house is ticking over and of course visiting my husband. I will not stop fighting for him he won't be home for another 6 years if we don't get an appeal or something changes but I won't stop the fight. Theses liars will get what they deserve one day. The compensation has to be changed in Germany they stopped the compensation and the accusation rate fell by 80% which says it all.
My husband and I are stronger than ever I'm proud of him and I won't have anyone say anything bad about him. We have lost so much because of this but we haven't lost each other.
I've realised how strong I am I didn't. Think I was but everyone has commented on how well I'm doing. Don't get me wrong I ha e days where I just crumble but then I tell myself that won't help my husband or my kids. Sorry about the rant but I can speak out on here knowing I'm not judged and people understand how I'm feeling.