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Thank you. I'm trying so hard but some days I wish he would carry me.
I feel helpless I wish I could do more.
Once again I know exactly how you feel- my man was always the strong one who I could rely on, perhaps the only person in the world I would trust with my life.
As for the CPS- it's all part of the process, albeit very very frightening. I hope you have the best outcome very soon
We are low consistently. There's no change in our mood from day one. We still suffer from the alligations.
I'm a bit more productive. My partner is stuck at his pare ts in the box room and although they are totally behind him their support is poor. So he spends huge amounts of time alone. This is affecting him massively
It's good that you are still going and he will continue to struggle for a while yet.
Be there for him. Look after yourself too but be there.
He will need some sort of normality back in his life which, understandably, feels like it's been blown apart!
Try and do things that you used to do before.
Even small things will help him.
Don't give up on him, he will recover.
It's a struggle but keep strong for him.
Sending hugs
YoH
[QUOTE=heartbreaking;54965]We are low consistently. There's no change in our mood from day one. We still suffer from the alligations.
I'm a bit more productive. My partner is stuck at his pare ts in the box room and although they are totally behind him their support is poor. So he spends huge amounts of time alone. This is affecting him massively[/QUOT
Ouch! That can't be good. I really do hope things turn around for you soon
We are low consistently. There's no change in our mood from day one. We still suffer from the alligations.
I'm a bit more productive. My partner is stuck at his pare ts in the box room and although they are totally behind him their support is poor. So he spends huge amounts of time alone. This is affecting him massively
Oh dear........ I can just feel your pain and frustration- it is absolutely devastating.
No matter how hard and how rough the path, just try and keep going- it will be over one day .
Struggling. Sad ..... missing my amazing man.
It's like a cancer.... ripping through a family. Some are lucky and survive ... Some are not so lucky. Either way the affects are life changing.
I have searched and searched and Googled and read up on solicitors for two days.
Then after speaking to stuart sutton. Who we would love but simply can't afford. He has recommended a solicitor. We are going to give him a test drive next week.
Fingers crossed.
Hope it works out well for you, fingers xd for you
We weren't 100% convinced as he was one just off a Google search.
So we wanted to see what other options we had in case of a charge we want things in place.
I have searched and searched and Googled and read up on solicitors for two days.
Then after speaking to stuart sutton. Who we would love but simply can't afford. He has recommended a solicitor. We are going to give him a test drive next week.
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