Our world is upside down

[joe_3178]

We've had a REALLY bad few days.

We thought once the second interview was done and they had what they wanted the next time we would hear would be an answer to what our future may hold.


No such luck. More consent given and more waiting. .... We are tired and fed up and dreadfully low.


I'd give anything for my family back under one roof

If you find yourself in hell, keep going

[Quite Alone]

I really feel for you. However, please don't lose hope. It sounds cliche, but positive thinking really is the best medicine! Only new here, but always here

[heartbreaking]

We've had a REALLY bad few days.

We thought once the second interview was done and they had what they wanted the next time we would hear would be an answer to what our future may hold.


No such luck. More consent given and more waiting. .... We are tired and fed up and dreadfully low.


I'd give anything for my family back under one roof

[joe_3178]

I've no idea the answer to most of your queries but am in a similar position. I was going to top myself the other day but came across this site which gave me hope and is the only reason I am still alive. I have an appointment during the week with a UK wide solicitor who specialises in these cases. Hang in there.

This is a very powerful statement and I want to express that whatever happens things will get better (life is not over until it's over) and many people who are falsely accused go on to resume their life, a little wiser but otherwise free to carry on as before. Even in the worst cases, things get better. For you (and others in such a situation) please consider seeking a counsellor via GP or privately to help if you haven't already. I did and it was a massive help

[heartbreaking]

We are just destroyed by it all.

We just dint know how much deeper they plan on digging .

When they can't even be bothered to interview relevant people

[Eebygolly]

10 days ago my partner was accused of historIc child abuse.He went in for a question as asked by the police. Only to be told they would investigate further.investigate what??? The last 26 years??? .... that's it no bail no arrest. He's not allowed in to my house or see my children.
NOTHING our lives have been stripped from us. He has seen a Solicitor and many people have said the fact he hasn't been arrested is because they haven't got evidence or he said something that has made the police question the accusations. Can anyone shine a light on time scales? Why there's been no arrest? What happens next

I've no idea the answer to most of your queries but am in a similar position. I was going to top myself the other day but came across this site which gave me hope and is the only reason I am still alive. I have an appointment during the week with a UK wide solicitor who specialises in these cases. Hang in there.

[heartbreaking]

So just an update.

The cps have come back for a 2nd time for doctors records as they couldn't find what they wanted in the hospital records.

Its never ending

[heartbreaking]

Thank you.

I feel like they are just looking for something to pin on him.

The solicitor didn't mess on and ripped a piece off the investigating officer.

[Rights Fighter]

Have answered your email

[heartbreaking]

Rights fighter. Could you please email.me I have a really important question tonal that I cannot post

[jittery]

hi

Well done for getting away (and coming back!!)
Hang in those feelings, they'll help to keep u going.
My OH answers bail soon, and I can't think about anything else!
I'm desperately trying not to let it take over our lives but it's impossible to forget.
We can get through this!
I'm determined not to give up!
NFAs would be most welcome!!!
Keep praying for the right outcome!
YoH

Hi YoH,
Think I speak for us all when I say I'm always in your corner rooting for you and hoping everything works out for the best!

Fond regards, stay strong!

[heartbreaking]

YOH is a super star hoping for good look for you at the next bail date.

We've survived yet another week of not knowing anything.

It's diabolical the time scale on these cases.

[psalms]

Well done for getting away (and coming back!!)
Hang in those feelings, they'll help to keep u going.
My OH answers bail soon, and I can't think about anything else!
I'm desperately trying not to let it take over our lives but it's impossible to forget.
We can get through this!
I'm determined not to give up!
NFAs would be most welcome!!!
Keep praying for the right outcome!
YoH

Good attitude YoH! Again, thinking and praying for you both!

[psalms]

We ran away... well we could of stayed away but returned.
It was nice to actually be 'normal' I just keep saying wouldn't it be nice to have a nfa next week. He's convinced he will be charged reading the stories. I just want my man home for Christmas so we can rebuild our lives

Hang in there both of you. I know what you're going through. Thinking and praying for you.

[YearsOfHell]

We ran away... well we could of stayed away but returned.
It was nice to actually be 'normal' I just keep saying wouldn't it be nice to have a nfa next week. He's convinced he will be charged reading the stories. I just want my man home for Christmas so we can rebuild our lives

Well done for getting away (and coming back!!)
Hang in those feelings, they'll help to keep u going.
My OH answers bail soon, and I can't think about anything else!
I'm desperately trying not to let it take over our lives but it's impossible to forget.
We can get through this!
I'm determined not to give up!
NFAs would be most welcome!!!
Keep praying for the right outcome!
YoH