Falsely Accused by Daughter

[feelingsad]

Thanks for the support myhome, I'm sure it's a good sign but as lonely place said these things can take ages. I know this being an ex military policeman and know the wheels of justice can sometimes take ages.

I want to thank you all for your kind messages and support and if I can help in any way please ask so we can all help each other.

[Faith]

Feelingsad, ensure you keep and screenshot the Facebook messages from your children. This could be crucial evidence if you were to be charged.

It is positive that there are inconsistencies already, hang in there

[feelingsad]

Hi Faith

Thanks for your comment. I've already take screen dumps and also copied the entire transcript into pdf format to prevent editing. It is indeed valuable evidence as it shows the attitudes of my daughter during the alleged period and after before the abuse started of which are extremely favorable to myself. I have also requested a complete dump of all facebook activity from facebook themselves to which they are currently preparing to forward to me. I note your signature line and for me the most important quote which has played a vital role in my life is Ps 37 v5.

Thanks for the messages to everyone and bluenikky I'm here to help as much as I can and likewise I'm sure.

[Bluenikky68]

Hi FS
I've PM'd my number to Saffron to send to you. Hope you're doing OK?
BN

[feelingsad]

Hi Bluenikky

I'm ok and only hope you are too. We can support each other in these times of uncertainty and I look forward to it.

Stay strong as I've found my strength again and feel it growing each day and hope I can encourage you to do the same. I know exactly how your feeling and we can help each other on this nightmare walk.

[Bluenikky68]

Hi FS, how are you doing?

[feelingsad]

Hi BN

Yeah I'm doing good although still in the land of limbo not knowing what's happening. Hope your OK and things are well with you.

[feelingsad]

Hi all, feeling really down today all this waiting around is starting to take it's toll now. I was doing really well keeping myself going over the last month or so trying to distract myself away from the issue at hand.

Why can't the police just get this case sorted rather than painfully keeping me hanging in limbo. Utterly utterly fedup, don't know where my life is going and I'm starting to feel very lost. I'm finding it hard to work today can't be bothered and ignoring my phone for the last 2 days. I'm just getting to the stage again where I was at over a year ago where I want to lock myself away from everything and one but I know I must keep trying to be active just becoming harder as each day goes past not knowing. Just wish I could see the light at the end of the tunnel and just hope it's not some git with a torch when I get there.

[lonley place]

Hi
Sorry to hear you are on a low at the moment, its hell just waiting for the oic to do their investigation.
Please try and get out and about, isolation is not good and only gives you time to over think about what
is happening.
Keep going stressed out its hard but you can do it ! We are all here for you
LP

[Psychojock]

Hi FeelingSad,

I'm coming in to this a bit late, sorry.

I can't really add much to the advice you have already been given.

I know how you feel, I too was falsely accused and it is the worst allegation that you can level against a man, especially from his own daughter!! All I can say is try to keep strong, you are not alone and the people on this board are probably about the most wonderful, non-judgmental people I have ever come across!!

Keep us all up to date, and take care.

Kindest Regards
Psychojock

[Bluenikky68]

Hey FS

You've clearly been talking to me too much, lol! Sorry things have got to you again, my friend; you sounded so positive when we last spoke. I'll try to call tonight, but don't feel that you have to answer if you don't want to. Stay strong mate and we WILL get through this eventually and then we'll find ways to repair things and/ or move on in positive ways. For now, it seems all we can do is try and 'laugh' at the insanity of what is currently happening to us. Get back out in the hills and nature for a bit. Take care and speak later, BN x

[myhome]

Hi FS - really sorry to read you're feeling so down again - but please don't beat yourself up about it - it would be unnatural if you didn't feel rotten sometimes. Being in limbo is awful - I'm 5 months since interrogation - no arrest, no charge, no information - so I can really understand how you feel. PM me if you'd like to - I'm a good listener.....

[Bluenikky68]

Hurry up FS, I'm bursting outta my skin, lol

[feelingsad]

Happy Days are here. I had a phone call tonight from the police stating that I have no case to answer and that everything is now dropped and there will be no further investigations. Talk about a weight lifted. I thank God and am so happy. An immense weight has been lifted and let me tell you a few beers are being devoured. (Sensibly of course ) I'm gonna stay with this forum and continue to support where I can and BN, m8 I'll always be here for you as you well know. I want to thank all for their kind words and support through these times and only hope I can help others through their own individual journey. Thanks to the forum owners for creating a needed place. Now lets do the dance

[myhome]

WAY HEYYYYYYYY fantastic news - always happy to hit the banana button - enjoy the start of you new life....