our lives have changed for ever the pain that this is causing is unbearable. he had consensual sex with her at a party, she now claims he raped her! this happened last nov 2009, and he was not arrested until 30th of jan. he has been bailed and rebailed month after month. twice we were told it was all over the first time, they said it was a computor error, the next time a sypathetic sergent told us it had come back from cps with no realistic chance of conviction, since then the police have appealed to cps and now they have charged him.
we do not know this woman but have been told by people that do that she suffers with by polar and is on medication for it, she has been having an affair with a married solicitor with three kids for over three years with sexual relations with young men inbetween! they were both drunk but she is claiming uncapable. she left our pub that night drunk and manhandled out the door by several people, thus these bruisers on her upper arms were supposed to have been caused by my son and not the people that took her home to the house where it is suppoed to have happened!
i refued to serve her any more to drink after 10.30 simply because she was coming onto my friends husband and it annoyed me a little. she asked about my son whilst in the pub, when told how old he was she said do you think that is a little young for me. the police know all this. she then approached me about him telling me how handsome he was, i pointed out his age and she laughed.
the next day after the party she got up and said she had been raped, she then said she felt rough and went back to bed in the same bed she claims the rape had happened. she has told folk that when examined she had a tear inside of her, my son said they had straaight sex with no forplay. the only thing that lets him down is that when arrested he was terrified and told the police he had not ad sex with her, later that day he told me the truth. my son has since gone back with a prepaired statement and told the truth, you can't imagine how much he regrets not doing this at first.
my son has never been in trouble ever before with the police he is shy and caring. he has since tried to commit suiside and cannot live with the fact this womans false accusations could put him in prison. i'v tried our doctor for help but they would not perscribe medication, he is awaiting councilling. this is all out of our depths we are not a criminal family and have never had dealings with the police ever. we need help but no one seems to be able to give it us. as a mother i am devistated my son has been foolish but he is no rapist. i feel i should add that my son was a virgin! this older woman took my sons innocence and ruined his life.
we do not know this woman but have been told by people that do that she suffers with by polar and is on medication for it, she has been having an affair with a married solicitor with three kids for over three years with sexual relations with young men inbetween! they were both drunk but she is claiming uncapable. she left our pub that night drunk and manhandled out the door by several people, thus these bruisers on her upper arms were supposed to have been caused by my son and not the people that took her home to the house where it is suppoed to have happened!
i refued to serve her any more to drink after 10.30 simply because she was coming onto my friends husband and it annoyed me a little. she asked about my son whilst in the pub, when told how old he was she said do you think that is a little young for me. the police know all this. she then approached me about him telling me how handsome he was, i pointed out his age and she laughed.
the next day after the party she got up and said she had been raped, she then said she felt rough and went back to bed in the same bed she claims the rape had happened. she has told folk that when examined she had a tear inside of her, my son said they had straaight sex with no forplay. the only thing that lets him down is that when arrested he was terrified and told the police he had not ad sex with her, later that day he told me the truth. my son has since gone back with a prepaired statement and told the truth, you can't imagine how much he regrets not doing this at first.
my son has never been in trouble ever before with the police he is shy and caring. he has since tried to commit suiside and cannot live with the fact this womans false accusations could put him in prison. i'v tried our doctor for help but they would not perscribe medication, he is awaiting councilling. this is all out of our depths we are not a criminal family and have never had dealings with the police ever. we need help but no one seems to be able to give it us. as a mother i am devistated my son has been foolish but he is no rapist. i feel i should add that my son was a virgin! this older woman took my sons innocence and ruined his life.
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