Hello There,
Looking for some advice.. Not been accussed of Rape but a sexual offence none the less and we all get hit with the same stick here in the UK.. Basically I am already on the dreaded register for an indecent offence in 2002. (I groped a woman when I shouldnt have!!) I was extremely drunk at the time and I pleaded guilty at the earliest opportunity and have complied with the offenders register since. My troubles began at work being accused of sexual harrassment on 2 occassions, for which my employer diligently interviewed myself and my accuser. Anyway my employer recognised that there were flaws in some of her story and only punished me for placing my hands on this womans waist, which I admitted. A few months on I have been arrested and charged with 3 counts of sexual assault... due to me being open with my visiting police officer about what was going on. This woman didnt go forward to complain, the police chased her up!! Anyway my only defence is that her story has slightly changed in parts from the one she told my employer.
She now says I have kissed her when her original statement to the employer stated that I only tried. There are also a few other discrepancies all of which have made things sound worse. I have denied all allegations, but due to my past bad character I'm probably likely to get locked up regardless & now lose my job which is what she wants, and didnt get through work. I'm in a situation where I have to prove innocence rather than them prove guilt!! She actually showed me pictures of herself on her mobile phone and also showed me her breasts during one of our encounters which she fully denies, but its me in the doc not her. No one has tried to substantiate my claims about the phone!!?? Its almost as if they dont believe me... So like any Sex offender theyl lock me up and throw away the key.... Any advice on this rather tricky situation???
Looking for some advice.. Not been accussed of Rape but a sexual offence none the less and we all get hit with the same stick here in the UK.. Basically I am already on the dreaded register for an indecent offence in 2002. (I groped a woman when I shouldnt have!!) I was extremely drunk at the time and I pleaded guilty at the earliest opportunity and have complied with the offenders register since. My troubles began at work being accused of sexual harrassment on 2 occassions, for which my employer diligently interviewed myself and my accuser. Anyway my employer recognised that there were flaws in some of her story and only punished me for placing my hands on this womans waist, which I admitted. A few months on I have been arrested and charged with 3 counts of sexual assault... due to me being open with my visiting police officer about what was going on. This woman didnt go forward to complain, the police chased her up!! Anyway my only defence is that her story has slightly changed in parts from the one she told my employer.
She now says I have kissed her when her original statement to the employer stated that I only tried. There are also a few other discrepancies all of which have made things sound worse. I have denied all allegations, but due to my past bad character I'm probably likely to get locked up regardless & now lose my job which is what she wants, and didnt get through work. I'm in a situation where I have to prove innocence rather than them prove guilt!! She actually showed me pictures of herself on her mobile phone and also showed me her breasts during one of our encounters which she fully denies, but its me in the doc not her. No one has tried to substantiate my claims about the phone!!?? Its almost as if they dont believe me... So like any Sex offender theyl lock me up and throw away the key.... Any advice on this rather tricky situation???
On arriving back I found a registered post letter from my employer. My previous offence had not come out in court... but the police have taken what I can only assume is great pleasure in informing my employer that Im a sex offender, they have also told my accuser in what I can only assume was a ploy to coerce her to come forward.. that she would be doing some kind of public service??... (Im supposed to be low risk!! I have not pleaded guilty to what Im accused of!!! So my conditions on the register should not change, what happened to innocent until proven guilty???) Anyway my employer has put all this down in writing and has stated that the outcome to their investigation into sexual harrassment of this woman would have had a possible different outcome if they were privy to this information.. They asked why I did not tell them?? Well their letter which states they now have to give serious consideration to my future employment answers their question!! Bias, they would not have investigated both sides of the story fairly if they had this information. They have asked me to confirm the following, 1. That I am indeed on the register. 2. For how long I was placed on the register. 3. When I was put on the register. 4. The circumstance in detail surrounding me getting put on the register. All I can assume is that this is the beginning of the end with my employment... They already know as they have stated that Im on the register... All I can hope for is that crown court now find me not guilty, and this will give me a case hopefully against my employer for dismissal under discriminatory grounds... Anyone got any advice on this?? Know of any good solictors that have dealt with sex cases in the Leeds, Bradford area and also know of any good employment law solictors. Surely they cant fire me just for being on the register?? They never asked me to disclose any criminal records to get this job it was CV only
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