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Hi don't know where to start as this is so messed up and twisted .
I left my husband 3 years ago due to 3 breakdowns and 3 suicide attempts due to his mental abuse .
I was told to leave our 3 girls with him so not to upset them anymore . I did this and for 3 years he controlled me by using them .
I met a new partner been together 2 years . I saw my children once a week if I was lucky and always went out with them . None of the girls spent no time with new partner as I always kept it separate. My time with my children was my time and I wasn't interested in playing happy step family's.
I had my youngest daughter (7) over night once in the 2 years kids dad's idea. I have every moment documented with pictures and videos as it's was a hot day and spent all day on beach then fireworks in evening. That was in August 2019.
I saw my girls a few more times between then and 15th September then all contact stopped . No reason they all just blocked me . My other 2 girls are 13 and 15
October 31st I come home to my home being raided for drugs . Never taken any in my life and when I phoned police to find out how to get into my home they said they was looking for my bf as my youngest has made a allegation of sexual assault which is untrue as he has never been left alone with her for a minute .
Her story's have been changed a few times 1 saying I allowed it while it went in to then it happens a his mum's with his brother .
Police have said they are closing the case due to lack of evidence but my bf is worried that he will have child sex offence against his name .
The last 4 months have been a living hell .
I lost my job we both not slept or eaten just dreading what lie be told next . She has mentioned his brother and other names said he had tattoos none of it was true.
Now I know a child don't just come out with something like this as her dad is a nasty narssasist who takes drugs but social workers don't care and just out girls in a child protection .
Anyway is there anything we can do so this vile sick allegation don't stay against his name or mine .
Can we take anyone to court for slander even tho it's come from a 7 yr old I know her dad and new partner are behind this .
I'm scared of my own children and scared of what they or him can do next .
My bf is innocent never been arrested for this we had to demand to speak to police to pr9ve he never touched her .
She never had a medical even tho allegation is very disturbing .
Will this stay against our names even if not been arrested and case is closed .
My bf was caught up in a spiteful malicious attempt to destroy me because I was happy I moved on had a good home and job.
My ex gf has made many false claims against men of rap8ng her . Even called police against ex for controlling behaviour . I find police contradict themselves and don't get any answers .
Butwhat I like to know if not been arrested and case is closed does this put a mark against his name .
Hope that made sense and thank you to any advice given .
I left my husband 3 years ago due to 3 breakdowns and 3 suicide attempts due to his mental abuse .
I was told to leave our 3 girls with him so not to upset them anymore . I did this and for 3 years he controlled me by using them .
I met a new partner been together 2 years . I saw my children once a week if I was lucky and always went out with them . None of the girls spent no time with new partner as I always kept it separate. My time with my children was my time and I wasn't interested in playing happy step family's.
I had my youngest daughter (7) over night once in the 2 years kids dad's idea. I have every moment documented with pictures and videos as it's was a hot day and spent all day on beach then fireworks in evening. That was in August 2019.
I saw my girls a few more times between then and 15th September then all contact stopped . No reason they all just blocked me . My other 2 girls are 13 and 15
October 31st I come home to my home being raided for drugs . Never taken any in my life and when I phoned police to find out how to get into my home they said they was looking for my bf as my youngest has made a allegation of sexual assault which is untrue as he has never been left alone with her for a minute .
Her story's have been changed a few times 1 saying I allowed it while it went in to then it happens a his mum's with his brother .
Police have said they are closing the case due to lack of evidence but my bf is worried that he will have child sex offence against his name .
The last 4 months have been a living hell .
I lost my job we both not slept or eaten just dreading what lie be told next . She has mentioned his brother and other names said he had tattoos none of it was true.
Now I know a child don't just come out with something like this as her dad is a nasty narssasist who takes drugs but social workers don't care and just out girls in a child protection .
Anyway is there anything we can do so this vile sick allegation don't stay against his name or mine .
Can we take anyone to court for slander even tho it's come from a 7 yr old I know her dad and new partner are behind this .
I'm scared of my own children and scared of what they or him can do next .
My bf is innocent never been arrested for this we had to demand to speak to police to pr9ve he never touched her .
She never had a medical even tho allegation is very disturbing .
Will this stay against our names even if not been arrested and case is closed .
My bf was caught up in a spiteful malicious attempt to destroy me because I was happy I moved on had a good home and job.
My ex gf has made many false claims against men of rap8ng her . Even called police against ex for controlling behaviour . I find police contradict themselves and don't get any answers .
Butwhat I like to know if not been arrested and case is closed does this put a mark against his name .
Hope that made sense and thank you to any advice given .
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