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I will try and be brief but need advice ASAP; I was seeing a girl who was ten years my younger, I am 33. She asks me if she can move in to my home as she told me she had no where to stay and her things needed taking out of storage. I later found out this was untrue as a mutual friend of ours kept and offered to bring her things to mine as I had accepted that she would stay. I asked her if she was willing to sleep in my room and she explained she was happy to and also would begin to pay rent back as soon as she began work. The day she moved in the mutual friend demanded money from myself saying she had owed him thousands of pounds and was threatening to contact my work and social services about my cannabis use, he even went as far as visiting her mother who lived over 50 miles away! I payed him again on another occassion and I ended up parting with around 3 thousand pounds total which was transferred to his account.
I thought everything woul have been going smoothly at first but there was always the fear that this 'mutual' friend may creep back and demand she owed him more money. The second time he claimed I had broken up there friendship and claimed was suffering because of my actions. He also claimed that he wanted to make me suffer.
The girl left on the cusp of her starting her new job. The nice she moved out she decided to call me and began asking me if I was OK. She then hang up the phone and called back saying she was angry referring to a time where she had fell asleep. She went on to profess that I had raped. I then receive a phonecall from the mutual friend a minute after claiming that the girl had told him and he began to accuse me of raping her and doing things that couldn't have been further from the truth, this conversation has now be sent to the police by one of them and the girl has been interviewed. I was called for a voluntary interview whereby I stated my case. I was told by the solicitor that money was mentioned in the recording however the officer asked nothing of this.
Cannabis was mentioned in the voluntary interview which I admitted we both smoked but not necessarily on that occassion. I mentioned little to nothing about the money involved to the officer in charge of the interview but I may have to explain this should this go any further. I am now stressing so much about my occupation, the officer said he would let me know if I needed to inform work of this case as I work in a regulated industry. I now don't know where to turn, I am lost. If anyone can offer me any advice reguarding this case I would appretiate it as I am waiting to hear back and it has only been 10 days since the interview.
Thanks all.
I thought everything woul have been going smoothly at first but there was always the fear that this 'mutual' friend may creep back and demand she owed him more money. The second time he claimed I had broken up there friendship and claimed was suffering because of my actions. He also claimed that he wanted to make me suffer.
The girl left on the cusp of her starting her new job. The nice she moved out she decided to call me and began asking me if I was OK. She then hang up the phone and called back saying she was angry referring to a time where she had fell asleep. She went on to profess that I had raped. I then receive a phonecall from the mutual friend a minute after claiming that the girl had told him and he began to accuse me of raping her and doing things that couldn't have been further from the truth, this conversation has now be sent to the police by one of them and the girl has been interviewed. I was called for a voluntary interview whereby I stated my case. I was told by the solicitor that money was mentioned in the recording however the officer asked nothing of this.
Cannabis was mentioned in the voluntary interview which I admitted we both smoked but not necessarily on that occassion. I mentioned little to nothing about the money involved to the officer in charge of the interview but I may have to explain this should this go any further. I am now stressing so much about my occupation, the officer said he would let me know if I needed to inform work of this case as I work in a regulated industry. I now don't know where to turn, I am lost. If anyone can offer me any advice reguarding this case I would appretiate it as I am waiting to hear back and it has only been 10 days since the interview.
Thanks all.
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