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Hi Everyone.
Firstly just wanted to say massive thank you to whoever created this website. I was lit and trying to find help or people to discuss my issue.
My issue which I am currently dealing with.
I was out while ago and guy who is a friend of mine came up to me at a a local nightclub. This how the conversation went. “Hi, how are you......? I wanted to talk to you privately about something I heard about you. He asked me if I had rapped a girl, who I slept with. I said nowhere did you hear this that’s so untrue. He told me his friend told him that I had apparently done this. I managed to get into contact with the person who told this guy. I spoke on the phone telling him the false claims his making is very dangerous and why his lying. He told me the girl said to him why didn’t you stop him.
I went out with group mates and me girl in our friendship girl who I’ve known for a years. We started to kiss and dancing together I were shocked because we known each other for ages wouldn't of that we would kisss. We were over each other etc the whole night. Left the nightclub still kissing with our friends.
We got a taxi back to our friend's house we had been drinking as we were out. I and the girl went into the toilet started kissing then that ended. Later all 5 of us shared bedroom I slept on the floor with a friend and the girl as well. She began to call me then we kissing and we said let’s **** so we did for about 5 minutes and our mates could hear us and the guy next to me said you lot disgusting etc. Then I asked to go on top as I was tired but she said no I can't be bothered. After 5 minutes I stopped as she didn’t want to go on top and I was tired then we both fell aslssp.
Next motioning I said we don’t speak about this ever happend and told everyone not to mention this because I was best friends with her Ex boyfriend. And everyone was like yeah yeah we won’t, at the time I slept with her I wasn’t friends with her ex because we had an argument and had not talked for months and still aren’t friends.
The next day in the morning she went downstairs to cuddle my friend and try to sleep with him. Then she was dropped home by one of her friends who was out clubbing with us and later she returned. . Forward 3 weeks later she messages on Instagram asking if had been tested because she was like you better not given me aids etc or anything. I said to her No then we began talking normal conversations like how are you etc. Forward 7 months later she told someone I apparently rapped her which is a lie. Even my friend was shocked when I told him.
She hasn’t gone to the police but she’s told a couple of people and they asked me. Soon as I found I contacted an agency that gives support to people with fake accusations. They said don’t speak to the girl at all or make any contact or do anything or you’ll be self Criminating yourself.
I don’t know what to do I’m completely lost I feel sick that she would make such false lies to people I’m just so lost and confused and feel like killing myself that she’s lying. I think she’s embarrassed for sleeping with me and she’s said that I don’t what to do any advice would much appreciate.
Firstly just wanted to say massive thank you to whoever created this website. I was lit and trying to find help or people to discuss my issue.
My issue which I am currently dealing with.
I was out while ago and guy who is a friend of mine came up to me at a a local nightclub. This how the conversation went. “Hi, how are you......? I wanted to talk to you privately about something I heard about you. He asked me if I had rapped a girl, who I slept with. I said nowhere did you hear this that’s so untrue. He told me his friend told him that I had apparently done this. I managed to get into contact with the person who told this guy. I spoke on the phone telling him the false claims his making is very dangerous and why his lying. He told me the girl said to him why didn’t you stop him.
I went out with group mates and me girl in our friendship girl who I’ve known for a years. We started to kiss and dancing together I were shocked because we known each other for ages wouldn't of that we would kisss. We were over each other etc the whole night. Left the nightclub still kissing with our friends.
We got a taxi back to our friend's house we had been drinking as we were out. I and the girl went into the toilet started kissing then that ended. Later all 5 of us shared bedroom I slept on the floor with a friend and the girl as well. She began to call me then we kissing and we said let’s **** so we did for about 5 minutes and our mates could hear us and the guy next to me said you lot disgusting etc. Then I asked to go on top as I was tired but she said no I can't be bothered. After 5 minutes I stopped as she didn’t want to go on top and I was tired then we both fell aslssp.
Next motioning I said we don’t speak about this ever happend and told everyone not to mention this because I was best friends with her Ex boyfriend. And everyone was like yeah yeah we won’t, at the time I slept with her I wasn’t friends with her ex because we had an argument and had not talked for months and still aren’t friends.
The next day in the morning she went downstairs to cuddle my friend and try to sleep with him. Then she was dropped home by one of her friends who was out clubbing with us and later she returned. . Forward 3 weeks later she messages on Instagram asking if had been tested because she was like you better not given me aids etc or anything. I said to her No then we began talking normal conversations like how are you etc. Forward 7 months later she told someone I apparently rapped her which is a lie. Even my friend was shocked when I told him.
She hasn’t gone to the police but she’s told a couple of people and they asked me. Soon as I found I contacted an agency that gives support to people with fake accusations. They said don’t speak to the girl at all or make any contact or do anything or you’ll be self Criminating yourself.
I don’t know what to do I’m completely lost I feel sick that she would make such false lies to people I’m just so lost and confused and feel like killing myself that she’s lying. I think she’s embarrassed for sleeping with me and she’s said that I don’t what to do any advice would much appreciate.
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