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Hi All,
just to say in June last year my 18 son was falsely accused of rape June last year. What a shock it was for us all and him knowing the person. He had been to party with her and her family and her boyfriend and others and came home later that night saying she had gone off with her boyfriend. Then the following morning she rang him and said she was sorry for leaving but could they go for a drink sometime soon.
Then with in 12 hours of that call the police called early hours and arrested him and told him what Suspicion of rape. He was held there nearly 20 hours and came out with a bail notice to answer the following month. In the mean time my son was getting so confused saying how can a friend do this to me.
His bail date was nearly due and the police called again and told him things where looking good for him and they wanted to extend his bail another 4 weeks just to check things over.
So then as time was getting nearer for his next bail call was he went on holiday and 4 days before he was due to answer it they rang up and wanted a number to contact him as everything was confiscated phone, computer, clothes. He then said he was closing the case end of. We all went to see the solicitor who had said lack of evidence. In-between that time she had been putting on f/b that justice has finally be done only now was she accusing her boyfriend of the same thing.
On monday the police rang to talk to my son just to say that the finalization of my sons case and it was good news for my son as it wouldn't show up on his crb. What i can't understand is why close a case in August and then ring up and say this would'nt show up on his crb ...... this is 5 months down the line.
Hence i did thing it strange as her so called b/friend has been sent down now.
so he's now going to be so weary of girls hes sees no wrong in anyone.
just to say in June last year my 18 son was falsely accused of rape June last year. What a shock it was for us all and him knowing the person. He had been to party with her and her family and her boyfriend and others and came home later that night saying she had gone off with her boyfriend. Then the following morning she rang him and said she was sorry for leaving but could they go for a drink sometime soon.
Then with in 12 hours of that call the police called early hours and arrested him and told him what Suspicion of rape. He was held there nearly 20 hours and came out with a bail notice to answer the following month. In the mean time my son was getting so confused saying how can a friend do this to me.
His bail date was nearly due and the police called again and told him things where looking good for him and they wanted to extend his bail another 4 weeks just to check things over.
So then as time was getting nearer for his next bail call was he went on holiday and 4 days before he was due to answer it they rang up and wanted a number to contact him as everything was confiscated phone, computer, clothes. He then said he was closing the case end of. We all went to see the solicitor who had said lack of evidence. In-between that time she had been putting on f/b that justice has finally be done only now was she accusing her boyfriend of the same thing.
On monday the police rang to talk to my son just to say that the finalization of my sons case and it was good news for my son as it wouldn't show up on his crb. What i can't understand is why close a case in August and then ring up and say this would'nt show up on his crb ...... this is 5 months down the line.
Hence i did thing it strange as her so called b/friend has been sent down now.
so he's now going to be so weary of girls hes sees no wrong in anyone.
nice to know people do understand the trauma of this. I don't think for one minute it was mistaken identity as it did appear in our local paper saying the date and it happened a week after she accused my son. As the date was there to see and also it was in a different place. It just annoys me so much how she can do this of course what was said in the paper this week did seem alarming of what had actually happened but some of the things which were printed did ring a bell of what she had said my son had done as well. Penetration of sex. But she also told the police how my son had got her pregnant and how she had to get rid of it. This was all a lie as my son had never had sex with her. I'm lucky in the respect that I can talk to my son. I just wish there was a way that she could be nailed for the allegations she made against my son the system stinks to high heaven. I do understand the police have to do there job if she made an allegation, but to accuse someone else the following week of the same offence. She's either crying out for help or attention seeking. and to even post on face book when this boy was being charged to tall ever body to buy the so called paper and to go to the page number, I know she didn't name him but it was there for everyone to see. And to tell everyone how bad it's been for her. She doesn't realise the extent of damage she has done to my son and I know he's got to try and put it at the back of his mind. Like he said to me how humiliating it was for him to be medically examined. That will never go away. I will keep coming in here and reading everyone's post as it does give you comfort knowing your not on your own. Cheers everyone. 
. The thing I cannot understand though why was it not rape if he had tied her up. Maybe she agreed and it all got out of hand. And also the day in question when she accused my son she was there with her family and boyfriend. So at a guess i would have thought they all would have been questioned as they would have been witnesses. Sorry for giving wrong information. 
Keep up the good work as it does bring comfort to people. 
Thank you for your times 
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