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  • False Rape Allegation By Wife!

    The ugly issue began in 2009 the moment we moved to United Kingdom from Nigeria, She wanted to make me a slave because I came in as her dependant , I work and pay all the bills while she kept saving her's. To cut the long story short.

    We separated in 2009 because I lost my job, but later she kept pleading that I should forgiven her, her family went begging my family back in Nigeria because at a point I stop seeing my children. Last year Christmas, she and the children requested I should come and because that children want me badly that they want me back home. I was with them from the 24th - 26th of December, We both did everything that husband and wife do over the three days.

    Then all of a sudden, she sent me an email in April accusing of raping her when I was with her in December, I thought it was a joke because she had in the past said all sort of things about me to both families. Before we parted we were even discussing about her having our third child in America and taken the other two to disney world.

    23th of June 2012, I went for my little girl birthday and I was told she had left that house, she later called to inform me that she is sorry, that she took the children for summing, the on 20th of August, I went visiting as requested by her and the kiddies and more so to help the kiddies assemble the bicycle that I bought for them each for the summer. I got to the house, my little girl open up the door and the brother follows, I carried him and to my greatest surprise my brother in-law came out and instructed that I should drop my child and he started fighting me that he got me injured.

    Then on the 22nd, I had to see my GP and he instructed I have to report to the police, then on the 26th of August, I saw the police in my house stating that am under arrest for rape by who the said by my wife that she said I raped her in December. I was arrested for the very first time in my life, detained and went through the ugly process of the police for what I did not do. But later released to answer bail for the first time last October without charge but later asked to return next Wednesday 5th of December 2012 to find out if the case will be charged or dropped.

    Meeting my solicitor last week he said the case will be dropped because it has no basis because in her statement she stated that we both agreed to have sex that night, despite getting me drunk before she started assaulting that night, before then I have her series of text messages pleading that she wants to have sex that she is wet and all sort of things that could go on between married couples.

    I need advise because her brother's case had been dropped. Her family are begging now that I should forgive her which am not ready to do, more so, I am planning of reporting her to the police as well on how she abuses children which I witnessed while we were together. although she is with the children but I dn't want to have anything to do with her and the children ever again.

    I need some advise.

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    • #3
      Hi and welcome.

      Very well laid out version of events and I am sorry that you find yourself in the position that you do.

      You're going to need to wait until Wednesday to hear what is going to happen. Don't be surprised if you are given another bail date, seems to be common practice. I would recommend that you do not answer any questions on Wednesday unless you have your solicitor present, just in the off chance they decide to ask questions.

      I wish you luck for Wednesday. Don't fail to update us and we will all attempt to assist you in any way possible.

      I would consider whether it is worth reporting your wife. I understand the hurt you are going through and your more than likely need to subject your wife to a little of that hurt in return but please consider the effects that it could have on your children. If your own children are being subjected to abuse then act in their interests.


      I am supposing that the 'case' against her brother was in reference to the 'assault' that happened on you?


      With regards to forgiving and forgetting. Can you EVER trust her again? Do you ever wish to find yourself back in the position you are currently in or worse, jail? Your wife has majorly destroyed the trust within the relationship and I am sure that for you to ever be back with her would be incredibly damaging and potentially life ruining.
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      • #4
        Update from Lawyer

        I have just been inform today by my lawyer that am going to be charge tomorrow for rape. I need advise on what I could do morrow at the police station.



        Originally posted by lawlessone2009 View Post
        Hi and welcome.

        Very well laid out version of events and I am sorry that you find yourself in the position that you do.

        You're going to need to wait until Wednesday to hear what is going to happen. Don't be surprised if you are given another bail date, seems to be common practice. I would recommend that you do not answer any questions on Wednesday unless you have your solicitor present, just in the off chance they decide to ask questions.

        I wish you luck for Wednesday. Don't fail to update us and we will all attempt to assist you in any way possible.

        I would consider whether it is worth reporting your wife. I understand the hurt you are going through and your more than likely need to subject your wife to a little of that hurt in return but please consider the effects that it could have on your children. If your own children are being subjected to abuse then act in their interests.


        I am supposing that the 'case' against her brother was in reference to the 'assault' that happened on you?


        With regards to forgiving and forgetting. Can you EVER trust her again? Do you ever wish to find yourself back in the position you are currently in or worse, jail? Your wife has majorly destroyed the trust within the relationship and I am sure that for you to ever be back with her would be incredibly damaging and potentially life ruining.

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        • #5
          Latest Update

          Hi,

          I have just been inform by my lawyer that am going to be charge tomorrow for rape. I need to know what will happen next because I have no clue since I have never had any encounter with the law ever in my life.

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          • #6
            Which area in the UK are you? Some of us might know of a solicitor who is experienced in defending this type of false allegation.

            I am so sorry you find yourself in this situation.

            On no account hand over any evidence to the police that might assist your case as they will sometimes hide it, pretend you have not given it to them.

            First thing is we need to find you an experienced solicitor.
            People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

            PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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            • #7
              Am base in London, since we separated I move to Middlesex, while she is still leaving in south east London.

              Actually, the police obtain my phone the moment I was arrested, most of the our text messages is on that phone.

              Currently,my lawyer said that is his area of specialization. They are called Reid Solicitors

              Originally posted by Rights Fighter View Post
              Which area in the UK are you? Some of us might know of a solicitor who is experienced in defending this type of false allegation.

              I am so sorry you find yourself in this situation.

              On no account hand over any evidence to the police that might assist your case as they will sometimes hide it, pretend you have not given it to them.

              First thing is we need to find you an experienced solicitor.

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              • #8
                Just Googled Reid sols and can't find them.

                Your best bet would be Gerry McDonald of EBR Attridges in north London. They are listed in the 'Specialist Solicitors' part of this forum so look there for details.
                People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

                PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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                • #9
                  Everlastingtruth.

                  Welcome to the forum.

                  I am sorry about what happened to you but I was in your situation a few months ago.

                  You will be charged in the police station where you will be searched and will have to sign what you are accused of.

                  I am afraid there is not a lot you can do at the moment.
                  If you have any evidence against your wife,keep it for yourself.
                  You will later be able to transmit it to your solicitor which could be beneficial in Court.

                  Do not trust the police,do not trust your wife.
                  If you have something against her you should wait because it can harm you in the rape case.
                  If you start to retaliate now,she will be evil against you in this case and she might later "use" the children against you.

                  Originally posted by Rights Fighter View Post

                  On no account hand over any evidence to the police that might assist your case as they will sometimes hide it, pretend you have not given it to them.

                  First thing is we need to find you an experienced solicitor.
                  Non,je ne regrette rien.

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                  • #10
                    thanks but they have my phone since I was arrested and it still with them. Can the get more some of my evidence via my laptop.
                    I have a solicitor working on the case from REID SOLICITORS. Will i be detain at the station or will be be allow to go and get ready for my defence.

                    Originally posted by Boys don't cry View Post
                    Everlastingtruth.

                    Welcome to the forum.

                    I am sorry about what happened to you but I was in your situation a few months ago.

                    You will be charged in the police station where you will be searched and will have to sign what you are accused of.

                    I am afraid there is not a lot you can do at the moment.
                    If you have any evidence against your wife,keep it for yourself.
                    You will later be able to transmit it to your solicitor which could be beneficial in Court.

                    Do not trust the police,do not trust your wife.
                    If you have something against her you should wait because it can harm you in the rape case.
                    If you start to retaliate now,she will be evil against you in this case and she might later "use" the children against you.

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                    • #11
                      The are on the website [ REID SOLICITORS]
                      Originally posted by Rights Fighter View Post
                      Just Googled Reid sols and can't find them.

                      Your best bet would be Gerry McDonald of EBR Attridges in north London. They are listed in the 'Specialist Solicitors' part of this forum so look there for details.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Everlastingtruth View Post
                        thanks but they have my phone since I was arrested and it still with them. Can the get more some of my evidence via my laptop.
                        I have a solicitor working on the case from REID SOLICITORS. Will i be detain at the station or will be be allow to go and get ready for my defence.
                        You must tell only your solicitor that you have messages from your wife on your mobile that you could use as evidence.
                        Yes,the police can retrieve a lot of information from your laptop.
                        If she sent you emails you think might help your defence,you must be able to retrieve them, keep a copy for yourself and forward them to your solicitor via another computer.

                        You shouldn't be detained if they don't have enough evidence against you and if you didn't admit that you raped her.

                        You will have to find the reason and the evidence why your wife accused you of rape.
                        Only share the facts with your solicitor.

                        I found Reid solicitors on Google and the only review...
                        One star out of five is:

                        Horrible man
                        Reviewed by customer on 2011-02-15 17:48:07

                        horrible man


                        Maybe you should look a bit futher Everlastingtruth???
                        Last edited by Boys don't cry; 4 December 2012, 09:46 PM.
                        Non,je ne regrette rien.

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                        • #13
                          Now Charged trial coming up 19th of this month

                          Thank you very much all.

                          As stated that I have an appointment at the station yesterday, I have indeed been charge yesterday for Raping 16 years and over wife stating anal intercourse from the initial Rape and serious sexual assault.

                          Exactly what you said, that will happen do happen, they wanted to detain me but my lawyer came in with the bail. my lawyer has been fantastic so far and he is given the assurance that he would surely deal with the case.

                          Any further guidance please as the court hearing is slated for 19th of this month December 2012

                          What are other things to put in place, like to know how the court system works as I have never being to one before.

                          This an offence I did not commit and am sure I will come out victorious in Jesus name.

                          Thanks for the support.

                          Originally posted by Boys don't cry View Post
                          You must tell only your solicitor that you have messages from your wife on your mobile that you could use as evidence.
                          Yes,the police can retrieve a lot of information from your laptop.
                          If she sent you emails you think might help your defence,you must be able to retrieve them, keep a copy for yourself and forward them to your solicitor via another computer.

                          You shouldn't be detained if they don't have enough evidence against you and if you didn't admit that you raped her.

                          You will have to find the reason and the evidence why your wife accused you of rape.
                          Only share the facts with your solicitor.

                          I found Reid solicitors on Google and the only review...
                          One star out of five is:

                          Horrible man
                          Reviewed by customer on 2011-02-15 17:48:07

                          horrible man


                          Maybe you should look a bit futher Everlastingtruth???

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                          • #14
                            Everlastingtruth.

                            Your first hearing in Crown Court will last only an hour or so.
                            You will meet your barrister who will present briefly your case to the judge.
                            You will also be asked if you are Mr Everlastingtruth and only plead "Not guilty".

                            You asked: "What are other things to put in place?"
                            In one word: "Defence".

                            You must try to remember what exactly happened and prove that you reasonably believed that your wife was consenting.
                            You must search and find evidence,texts,notes,letters,witnesses,...

                            Do you think your wife accused you for a financial reason,for the children custody,...

                            Keep us informed if you can.
                            Non,je ne regrette rien.

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                            • #15
                              She will Fall In Jesus

                              Thanks you very much God sent person.
                              I have loads of evidence to show whomever that she consented and more so, she even did some things with those two days that she won't want to share with the police or the investigator.
                              She has lots of motives for what she for her allegation
                              1. She thinks am about to divorce her because she had the voice of one of my aunty on the phone while holidaying with the in early this year.
                              2. She is trying to protect her brother that assault me two days before she went and report at the same police station
                              3. To keep the children and in other to exploit the dv mean to obtain permanent residence.
                              4. Long been finding means to get me deported, because I came in through her, and got my paper through my brother. she and her family are very upset.
                              5. She wants me out of the way because I hold the keys to how she often abuse children as a child minder.

                              I have a travelling bag of evidence against her, lots of official document on how she forge my children birth certificates, how she went collecting things that she is not suppose to collect from the government . etc.

                              Pl
                              Originally posted by Boys don't cry View Post
                              Everlastingtruth.

                              Your first hearing in Crown Court will last only an hour or so.
                              You will meet your barrister who will present briefly your case to the judge.
                              You will also be asked if you are Mr Everlastingtruth and only plead "Not guilty".

                              You asked: "What are other things to put in place?"
                              In one word: "Defence".

                              You must try to remember what exactly happened and prove that you reasonably believed that your wife was consenting.
                              You must search and find evidence,texts,notes,letters,witnesses,...

                              Do you think your wife accused you for a financial reason,for the children custody,...

                              Keep us informed if you can.

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