ive been here

[craig]

i was accused a year ago today life was hell, lost a job in the Royal Navy, i dont belve in stress but what i was going thru was stressfull waiting for the all clear because knowingly u neva did anything wrong in the first place, wait for cps, wait for some infomation from someone, i never had a solicitor or anything because i didnt want 1 because i never did anything wrong, its realy bad that even now i still get asked about it, i hada new start a couple of month ago fresh start with the most amazing girl i never told her about my past ie rape case, now she has found out off a friend that knows and now this amazing lass has gone!! she said i should have told her
*if i told her she would have run a mile
because i havnt told her she has walked away turning her back on me.

the bad thing is people are too quick to say guilty until proven inocent yet the LADS/MEN that get accused get branded straight away, and i lost a well paid job out of it too i was on £32000P/A but because the mental and physical hell i was facing in work everyday i left.

I have tried to get the lass who accused me sued for defamation of charicter and also wasting police time, yet no 1 seems to want to help me try getting a claim in is there a way i can get some sort of compensation for the hell i went thru and still go thru, its all been NFAed but it always seems to get me!!!

i just want to give up on life even tho its been cleared.

[Saffron]

Hi Craig

I have moved your post to a new thread so that more members can see it and respond.
Most people think that once a case is NFAd, the falsely accused can move on. Sadly many here know it's much more complicated than that.
Others will be along shortly. Hang in there.

[craig]

its No further action now yet i still get.... for it. is there any way of getting some sort of compensation ie cival litagation? i met a new a girl thats amazing, i never told her about what happened a year ago as it was faulse and has been proven by cps and police yet shes gone mad and has had a masive fall out she isnt speaking or anything its been a year to the day today that i was arested over it but i stil get cram over it, ive lost a 32k P/A job serving in the Royal navy and inm jobless now its ruined my life!!!! is there a way of getting the cow back for what she did and is there a way to get some kind of compensation i shouldnt have to put up with this as its been NFA ed

[0990]

it does take time just over a year for me i think you have good and bad days , i just know it could have been worse ,