Solicitors advice

[jittery]

no problem

Thank you Jittery, that was very kind. I'm more positive today. It's a good day health wise. Thanks to all that contributed so far I will no doubt touch base again soon. It's good to know you are here xx

No problem. So glad to hear you've had a better day today; let;s hope it's the first of many. Try to stay positive ; not always easy, I know. There'll always be someone here for you. Stay strong!

[Incredulous]

So sorry to hear of your situation, I can't help, but I feel moved to say something. I really hope that there is a way out of this for both yourself and your son. Fingers crossed for you both and GOOD LUCK!!!

Thank you Jittery, that was very kind. I'm more positive today. It's a good day health wise. Thanks to all that contributed so far I will no doubt touch base again soon. It's good to know you are here xx

[jittery]

hi

I'm so pleased the solicitor is keeping you as confident as you can be. If you'd like a telephone chat some time email me your landline number and we can arrange that.

So sorry to hear of your situation, I can't help, but I feel moved to say something. I really hope that there is a way out of this for both yourself and your son. Fingers crossed for you both and GOOD LUCK!!!

[Rights Fighter]

I'm so pleased the solicitor is keeping you as confident as you can be. If you'd like a telephone chat some time email me your landline number and we can arrange that.

[Casehardened]

If you want to move this thread to where it should be please do RF

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I've added these last few posts onto your main thread so new members will understand your situation better.

[Rights Fighter]

I can't remove posts hon as I am not a moderator. I am sure one will be along shortly and will do the necessary.

(((HUGS)))

[Incredulous]

Hy yes, she is really superb. And has worked really very hard for my son. She is grounded, methodical and says to expect anything. But she has done her level best. And level she is indeed.

The not knowing is just horrendous

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[Rights Fighter]

Hi Incredulous

I remember you as we spoke on the phone some time ago. I am so sorry to see this update, that you and your son are in such a bad place emotionally.

does the solicitor you have chosen inspire confidence in you both? I seem to recall it's one of two ladies who recently set up together.

Please do feel free to email me

(((HUGS)))

[Incredulous]

Long time no speak. But now terrified

I have been lurking for a while because I haven't been able to talk ... It is going to be over 11 months since my son was arrested for Rape by his False Accuser. It's been hell on wheels and back and as his next Bail date is in May I just don't know whether in 4 weeks time I will have a living son or not. He's barely 'coped' and ive had a complete breakdown. ( there has been other dramatic emotional events too in this time ) if he's charged I haven't got a clue how I will keep him alive.

I just don't know what will happen

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[Rights Fighter]

The south coast goes from Kent to Cornwall. It's a long line.....

[Incredulous]

Saw it on a thread. South coast? Was that right?

[Rights Fighter]

What area is that then and how do you know?!

[Incredulous]

The same area as you are

[Rights Fighter]

Whole years have changed on the indictment because the accuser got the date wrong.....

One of mine - accuser said she was 11 and she knew she was 11 as she had just started senior school. It happened at an address starting 1983.

Defendant didn't meet the family until 1985, didn't move into the house until 1987........

Re talking to solicitors pre charge. Please remember that unless you pay them to talk with you, you cannot expect them to give their time for nothing. Some will as a matter of goodwill, if they have the time - and some will not.

Which area are you in?

[can it get worse]

I also seem to remember reading on here that a 'victim' stating she remembered 'it' happened on New Years Eve but then was allowed to change the date!!!

I think I have also read on the CPS guidance website that 'victims' have to be excused if they change their dates, the actual year etc due to their vulnerability.