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    Default 7 Months - Still Hurt

    Hello, I don't really know how to start this so I just will. Around 7 months ago I was falsely accused by my gf of the time. What happened was that we had a pregnancy scare and when we were going top have sex again for the first time which she agreed to at the time, then three weeks later she changed her mind. She left me and I was left broken, she was everything to me, I surrounded myself with her and when she wasn't there anymore it killed me.
    I heard some of the things she was saying, like that she was crying and verbally asking me to stop but that didn't happen. To have her say these things about me 7 months ago is still killing me. I've been so alone. I'm afraid. I'm depressed and I just want help.

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    Hi
    Just wondering how you're holding up.
    Have you been to GP for any help?
    It's a heartbreaking thing when it's someone so close to you making these allegations.
    You must remember that you are not the person she is making you out to be.
    Trust your innocence and stand tall.
    You can get help from talking to the samaritans, if you need to talk.
    GP can give you something to help if you need it, there's no shame, you're living with a huge shock and a life changing matter.
    Get counselling in place too.
    It takes a while so do it now.
    What's happening with the case?
    Are you on bail?
    Keep posting
    YoH

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    It's all been very slow honestly. She never went to the police, which I know maybe makes my case less severe but not telling the police didn't stop her telling everyone. Thanks for the kind words of support.

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    I am so sorry to see this has happened to you SethRogenEnthusiast

    Hopefully she won't go to the police, but if she does, you will have the support from the good people in the group, as and when necessary.


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    Thank you, I never knew there were so many people going through a similar thing to me before I came on here.

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    I'm pretty badly depressed and have been for like 3 years so when she told me that I believed her and she said that it wasn't rape, then she changed her mind. It's getting to a point where i don't feel like I'm going to get over it. I'm not confident enough to find new love especially after this. Life is not going well atm

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    Please, be encouraged to seek some counselling to help with your present state of mind. Just because she said so doesn't make it true, and there are ways to help your self esteem and belief in yourself recover.

    Her lies crushing you means that she is winning, and she possibly doesn't give you or your feelings a second thought after all these months. Reclaim your life!! It doesn't have to be so miserable, but you need to work at making it better.

    We can encourage and support as much as you need, but baby steps to your GP to ask for mental health assistance is a good start. Feeling so low for 3 years is hard, but it can get better and you don't have to let this episode make it worse or get the better of you.

    Please talk to your doctor. I can promise you that a good GP won't be shocked or judge you. They've probably come across your kind of situation before and may have lots of good suggestions to make.
    'Mongolian Warriors had the courage of lions, the patience of hounds, the prudence of cranes, the long-sightedness of ravens, the wildness of wolves, the passion of fightingcocks, the keenness of cats, the fury of wild boars and the cunning of foxes.' BE A MONGOLIAN WARRIOR WHEN DEFENDING YOUR INNOCENCE!

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