Hi Bob1234. I echo everything that YearsofHell has said, and couldn't say it better. Rest assured that what you're feeling right now is normal, but be gentle with and kind to yourself. As the shock subsides things will seem more manageable.
3 months seems like forever now and they could throw it out sooner but it might be longer. There's no way of telling. Once you're in the system, you're at their mercy, but knowing that and being at peace with it will come and make it all easier to bear. Don't pin your hopes on any particular scenario - honestly, just going with the flow at this point is the best thing to do.
As I said, the advice you've had already is spot on, so I won't repeat it, but will just say that I'm glad you've got support in the real world, and that there is support here for as long as you need it. Hang in there - the panic will subside in a while.
'Mongolian Warriors had the courage of lions, the patience of hounds, the prudence of cranes, the long-sightedness of ravens, the wildness of wolves, the passion of fightingcocks, the keenness of cats, the fury of wild boars and the cunning of foxes.' BE A MONGOLIAN WARRIOR WHEN DEFENDING YOUR INNOCENCE!