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    Hi about a month ago I was falsely accused of rape. My world came crashing down, my life came to a pause. I've lost everything , I've been stripped down, my kids have been taken away, I have had to move out. A quick brief of the allegation:

    My partner told me about an affair she had a while ago, with that in mind i wanted to pay her back. Wrong move! I met this girl who was very forward we went for a drive and almost had sex until
    She stated its a shame she was on her periods, after exchanging contact details and flirting over Facebook we met 2 weeks after in a hotel and had sex, we met 2 weeks after again and had sex in my vehicle. She was very sexually forward.

    The next morning police nocked on my door saying a girls gone missing and it was her , they asked me do you know her age I said yes she 18, it even says on her Facebook and I have proof over mails she told me 18. They said she was 15. My world came crashing down. They said I was last person to contact her phone number.

    I had 0 suspicion of her age. She looked and acted 18 I am 23.

    They locked me up for suspicion of child abduction, and later further accused me of rape whilst I was in the cells. When they said rape I died over and over inside. Rape?!? Are you being serious! I have emails of her flirting on Facebook and looking forward to Meet after our first sex session! Also how is rape possible when the women starts with giving oral?!

    When I came out I learnt she accused 2 others of rape the same night. And lied to them about her age. I'm guessing after I dropped her off she went to a House party maybe? I don't no why she's doing this maybe she's embarrassed having sex with 3 guys in one night and can't face her parents. So just to the easy way out and pull the rape card destroying life's in the process.

    If you want to know more about my story I have started a blog to express my feelings.

    Www.lincolnburrowsecho.wordpress.com

    I'm currently on bail until October. I am innocent or I would be posting here, I can't cope with this anymore. It's effected me in all kinds of ways. I've started smoking heavily, stopped the gym, stopped work.

    I have had to move out as I can't live under the same roof as my children , I can't be around them according to the social workers, they are my world, I sleep in a shared house, a small cold, damp. cracked bedroom. My new born was just born 3 days ago. I'm missing out on his life thanks to this stupid little girl.

    Please ask any questions

  • #2
    In law, a person under the age of 16 years cannot consent to sexual intercourse, so legally speaking, that is rape, even in the event of a girl behaving in the way that she did towards you.

    With regards to the other allegations, she may well have behaved in the exact same manner to the others, with them believing she was 18, not 15.

    She's what used to be known as "jail bait". Downright dangerous. She will know exactly what she is doing.

    However, for one so young to be behaving like that, she cannot be happy at home, to look for "love" elsewhere. Possibly she is in care and/or living in an abusive household and wants to escape. To do that she would need money to furnish a new place and when she is 16 she may well end up in bedsit / flat land.

    You need to look for motives. You might not know what they are now but later on, they may well become clear.
    People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

    PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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    • #3
      Nothing to ask Chuck- just sorry you had to find us.
      You'll find support and advice on here- we're all travelling the same road at different points on our journey.

      You may have done some thing stupid, but haven't we all at some point?
      Doesn't mean we deserve to be wrongly accused.
      I haven't read your blog as yet but a word of caution- be careful what you write!!

      In the meantime, keep time lines and anything that may help to prove your innocence- FB screenshots etc.

      It's awful to be torn away from your kids- I hope you can resolve that, even if it's just supervised contact for now.

      Keep on keepin' on as they say.
      They tried to bury us- they didn't know we were seeds

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      • #4
        Have you taken screenshots of her FB profile where she has put her date of birth as 1996? If not, do that now. Also screenshots of photos of her made up, possibly drinking in a pub or club (not as bad character but to show that pubs and clubs believe her to be over the age of 18).

        Save anything like that to a memory stick or similar, and ask a trusted friend to look after it.
        People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

        PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Rights Fighter View Post
          In law, a person under the age of 16 years cannot consent to sexual intercourse, so legally speaking, that is rape, even in the event of a girl behaving in the way that she did towards you.

          With regards to the other allegations, she may well have behaved in the exact same manner to the others, with them believing she was 18, not 15.

          She's what used to be known as "jail bait". Downright dangerous. She will know exactly what she is doing.

          However, for one so young to be behaving like that, she cannot be happy at home, to look for "love" elsewhere. Possibly she is in care and/or living in an abusive household and wants to escape. To do that she would need money to furnish a new place and when she is 16 she may well end up in bedsit / flat land.

          You need to look for motives. You might not know what they are now but later on, they may well become clear.
          Thank you for your reply, I will try to look for motives. But right now it is very hard, I see no light. Also this is not the first time she went missing. She went missing around 2 weeks ago when police searched my house again 80 miles away from the incident. I work 80 mile away from my home town. She clearly has issues going on.

          Originally posted by AmandaF View Post
          Nothing to ask Chuck- just sorry you had to find us.
          You'll find support and advice on here- we're all travelling the same road at different points on our journey.

          You may have done some thing stupid, but haven't we all at some point?
          Doesn't mean we deserve to be wrongly accused.
          I haven't read your blog as yet but a word of caution- be careful what you write!!

          In the meantime, keep time lines and anything that may help to prove your innocence- FB screenshots etc.

          It's awful to be torn away from your kids- I hope you can resolve that, even if it's just supervised contact for now.

          Keep on keepin' on as they say.
          I'm happy I found this forum. It's amazing theirs a place for us, I never knew how much this can effect someone. Thank you I am Definatly keeping and eye on my blog posts, I have literally nothing to hide in this case it is all false. I have downloaded the whole Facebook conversation just in case. But the police have my phone, and I also gave them my passwords to check our
          Conversation and tell me if that's rape. I have 3rd person supervision but I can't always find a 3rd person I live miles away from my family and friends

          Originally posted by Rights Fighter View Post
          Have you taken screenshots of her FB profile where she has put her date of birth as 1996? If not, do that now. Also screenshots of photos of her made up, possibly drinking in a pub or club (not as bad character but to show that pubs and clubs believe her to be over the age of 18).

          Save anything like that to a memory stick or similar, and ask a trusted friend to look after it.
          I have indeed I have also taken a video of her DOB, viewing it at different angles and scrolling up and down so they can't say it has been photoshopped. We was actually supposed to go out after our second meet but she changed her mind after a text message she received and asked to be dropped off


          ----

          Thank you so much for the replies guys. I'm going through so much, I'm sure a lot of people are too. I wish you all the best. Any more advice would be greatly appreciated. I always said to people I'm
          Going to be something huge in life I just don't know what yet , some one very successful. I could
          Feel the motivation and inspiration flowing out of me every day.

          Then this happened.
          Last edited by Lincolnburrows; 5 September 2015, 12:19 PM.

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          • #6
            Hi and welcome to the forum. Sorry you had to find us.

            You will find lots of support on here and I am sure others will be along later

            Sorry to hear that you are separated from your children, but unfortuantly it's one of the horrendous consequences of these accusations, which too many of us are so familiar with. I have been fortunate in that as a family we have managed to stay together but the threat is always hanging over us.

            I will read your blog later but to echo Amanda be careful what you write... You never know who is looking at it

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            • #7
              I'm also concerned that his real name is Lincoln Burrows. If it is he has identified himself on here and the police could be watching this to see his defence unfold.
              People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

              PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Rights Fighter View Post
                I'm also concerned that his real name is Lincoln Burrows. If it is he has identified himself on here and the police could be watching this to see his defence unfold.


                My real name isn't Lincoln burrows, Lincoln burrows is a fictional character from the TV series prison break. Who is falsely accused of murder, thank you so much for the support guys.

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                • #9
                  Great stuff! Some people register in their real names.....
                  People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

                  PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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                  • #10
                    Unfortunately the "victim" is always believed over you.
                    There will be people that are being paid to paint you black and even if they didn't see any sense in it will fight her case no matter what. As it's their job to believe them.

                    Don't mean to put a downer on it, first hand experience tells me that they will try and pin everything on you.
                    I hope that you are reunited with your children soon or at least able to see them. I know that would kill me inside to have that happen to myself.

                    The victim will probably get a chance on a second interview where they would have got their words clearer and been coached to include certain terminology. It's highly unfair unfortunately.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by truthspeaker View Post
                      Unfortunately the "victim" is always believed over you.
                      There will be people that are being paid to paint you black and even if they didn't see any sense in it will fight her case no matter what. As it's their job to believe them.

                      Don't mean to put a downer on it, first hand experience tells me that they will try and pin everything on you.
                      I hope that you are reunited with your children soon or at least able to see them. I know that would kill me inside to have that happen to myself.

                      The victim will probably get a chance on a second interview where they would have got their words clearer and been coached to include certain terminology. It's highly unfair unfortunately.
                      Thanks for the reply , ahhh that sounds awful . Their is 0 evidence I knew of her age if anything their is evidence of the age she gave me and the age she gave the world, as for the rape allegation, cmon i met this girl once already .. We had sex ,why would you meet someone again who supposedly "raped" you a second time ?!

                      Not only that it was HER idea to meet the second time begging me to come out and it is ALL on the mails. Thankfully I didn't delete them. As for the first meeting , after we had sex I had to run some errands so she waited outside the hotel at a nearby shop... I have her mails asking how long and to hurry up. If someone raped you , you would not ask them to hurry back.

                      Guys I'm losing faith. I really can't take this. This world is a dangerous place to live. I've done so much for this world. I pay for all sorts of charities including RSPCA, water aid,cancer research, RSPCC. Whenever I see a homeless person I always give him loose change or some food that I have. This is how the world repays me :'(

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                      • #12
                        Don't you DARE start to lose faith! If you check out the many recent updates you will see several NFA's and Not Guilty verdicts!

                        Now then!
                        People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

                        PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Rights Fighter View Post
                          Don't you DARE start to lose faith! If you check out the many recent updates you will see several NFA's and Not Guilty verdicts!

                          Now then!


                          Thank you RF, i will try keep my head up. This helps more thank you think, just to speak to someone and let it out. Most likely I will be changing solicitors if it goes to court he never wants to speak or call back, I noticed your signature is he any good?

                          Is there a section for good lawyers here specialising in our cases, also could they represent me if the court is based miles away from the solicitors office?

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                          • #14
                            http://www.daftmoo.org.uk/mooforum/s...ist-solicitors

                            Although there are now many pages to trawl through. Solicitor Chris is private client only. He stopped doing trials on legal aid when they stopped paying by the hour and only by the case. That means that if several months work is required, he is paid the same amount for a month's work. Obviously you cannot expect a highly experienced solicitor to undertake hundreds of hours work and only be paid for a fraction of that.

                            Remind me, which area would any potential trial be in? Usually where the alleged offences took place. Don't identify a village (this is a public forum) but maybe a county?
                            People Appealing Convictions of Sexual Offences ~http://www.pacso.co.uk

                            PAFAA details ~ https://pacso.co.uk/pafaa-people-aga...ions-of-abuse/

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                            • #15
                              Please do not give up faith, you have the support of us on the forum. No one ever thinks they will have to find a forum for false allegations but thank God there is one, I didn't post at the time our son was falsley accused but kept checking on other people's situations which really helped me, we had 9 months of hell it seemed a life time to us but for other people their nightmare lasted much longer. Our son got his nfa in July. I hope you get the same result, it's a hard road we have to travel to get to regaining faith. Hang on in there.

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